The Quiet Harassments

This noon, I received a text from my best friend Amanda.

Amanda is very sweet, decent, friendly but a little, very little girly-dumb. She has a master degree in IT but she decided to join my industry a year ago, so she got into a teacher training college.

She was extremely upset and blue, said some Malay guy was trying to "orally sex harassment" her.

Urr.. at first I thought that guy asked her to give him a blowjob.

Then I read the whole part of her message, oh, it's nothing related to oral sex, not at all.

This shows the importance of speaking and writing in proper English.

According to her, the Malay guy sat just behind her but lean towards her closely, then he had his hand very close to her to demonstrate her body curve to show or not to show others.

... and the Malay guy will graduate to be a teacher, just like her.

She claimed that she felt like slapping him but did not because he could deny everything.

My god, all the rapists would be happy sleeping safe and sound if every victims "felt like reporting them but did not because they could deny everything"!

Shame on him for doing this but it's her own mistake if she decided to be quiet about this.

Then all her classmates started to gossip behind her back, damn those female or male dickheads, those jerks will get their karma one day!

This is sexual harassment, this is not to be neglected!!

One thing that pisses me off the most is one of her classmates, in her 30s, told Amanda it's her own fault as she always joked with the Malay people without boundaries.

This woman is apparently an idiot as well. Let me get this straight, according to her theory, if you were being friendly to a lot of people and one day, you were raped. The rapist is not to be blamed because you "joked with people without boundaries"?!?!

How would she like it if she reported something like this to the police and they claimed it's her own fault and gave her a shit excuse like that?!

I then quickly replied her as it was already 4 hours since I received it. I told her she should fucking shout at that guy for being disrespectful, whatever the consequences is.

I really don't think her lecturers will ignore this matter nor to standby the harasser, if they did, they grew up eating shit so that explains the most if it.

What is sexual harassment about?

"Power".

Those harassers harass people to show themselves or whoever how powerful they can be and they usually harass those whom they think are powerless.

Once you speak up or fight back, I seriously do doubt it if they will ever do that again.

I also told Amanda her "consultant" friend is fucking stupid and scolded her for thinking she's right. I mean, if my friend told me I was being harassed because I dressed up too revealingly, I will mock the fuck out of her, dumb bitch!

If you are not good giving advice, DON'T!

Who wants to hear it's their fault when the fault is not theirs to blame?!

This harassment reminds me of this old perverted pedophile, in his 60s, when I was little.

He owned a bakery and I always went there to play or to chit chat with him. I liked to buy snacks there as he sold various types.

It was Chinese New Year and I brought some money there to buy a packet of snack.

His shop was closed but he let me in. Then all of a sudden out of nowhere, he hugged me from behind and touched me everywhere, yes, including there!

I cannot understand why I was so friendly. I knew he was harassing me and I knew the right reaction was to reject him then to leave immediately.

But I did not do that as I did not want to "hurt his feeling", my god, how dumb was I!!!

No rejection, but I tried to think of another way out.

Then I told him I had to get back to my parents if not they'll get worried, he finally let go. I took a packet of snacks there, it was what I went there for.

... and handed him 20 cents.

That pervert was oh-so-kind-and-reasonable. He gave me the snacks for free!

I took it not thinking more, but then it came to me, as I accepted it, I accepted his "payment".

The payment didn't have to be huge as I was only a child.

Of course, he asked me not to tell my parents, but duh, yeah right.

I told my mum, but my mum asked me to keep quiet, she worried that my dad would do something really nasty to him, she did not want my dad to be arrested.

I also remember being harassed by many perverts when I was in the teacher training college, even by lecturers, but I am no longer so kind like I was little.

Women being harassed or raped before, you don't need sympathy nor empathy from people, you need power for yourself!

Be powerful, fuck those perverted jerks, we are more powerful than they fucking are!