This noon, I received a text from my best friend Amanda.
Amanda is very sweet, decent, friendly but a little, very little girly-dumb. She has a master degree in IT but she decided to join my industry a year ago, so she got into a teacher training college.
She was extremely upset and blue, said some Malay guy was trying to "orally sex harassment" her.
Urr.. at first I thought that guy asked her to give him a blowjob.
Then I read the whole part of her message, oh, it's nothing related to oral sex, not at all.
This shows the importance of speaking and writing in proper English.
According to her, the Malay guy sat just behind her but lean towards her closely, then he had his hand very close to her to demonstrate her body curve to show or not to show others.
... and the Malay guy will graduate to be a teacher, just like her.
She claimed that she felt like slapping him but did not because he could deny everything.
My god, all the rapists would be happy sleeping safe and sound if every victims "felt like reporting them but did not because they could deny everything"!
Shame on him for doing this but it's her own mistake if she decided to be quiet about this.
Then all her classmates started to gossip behind her back, damn those female or male dickheads, those jerks will get their karma one day!
This is sexual harassment, this is not to be neglected!!
One thing that pisses me off the most is one of her classmates, in her 30s, told Amanda it's her own fault as she always joked with the Malay people without boundaries.
This woman is apparently an idiot as well. Let me get this straight, according to her theory, if you were being friendly to a lot of people and one day, you were raped. The rapist is not to be blamed because you "joked with people without boundaries"?!?!
How would she like it if she reported something like this to the police and they claimed it's her own fault and gave her a shit excuse like that?!
I then quickly replied her as it was already 4 hours since I received it. I told her she should fucking shout at that guy for being disrespectful, whatever the consequences is.
I really don't think her lecturers will ignore this matter nor to standby the harasser, if they did, they grew up eating shit so that explains the most if it.
What is sexual harassment about?
"Power".
Those harassers harass people to show themselves or whoever how powerful they can be and they usually harass those whom they think are powerless.
Once you speak up or fight back, I seriously do doubt it if they will ever do that again.
I also told Amanda her "consultant" friend is fucking stupid and scolded her for thinking she's right. I mean, if my friend told me I was being harassed because I dressed up too revealingly, I will mock the fuck out of her, dumb bitch!
If you are not good giving advice, DON'T!
Who wants to hear it's their fault when the fault is not theirs to blame?!
This harassment reminds me of this old perverted pedophile, in his 60s, when I was little.
He owned a bakery and I always went there to play or to chit chat with him. I liked to buy snacks there as he sold various types.
It was Chinese New Year and I brought some money there to buy a packet of snack.
His shop was closed but he let me in. Then all of a sudden out of nowhere, he hugged me from behind and touched me everywhere, yes, including there!
I cannot understand why I was so friendly. I knew he was harassing me and I knew the right reaction was to reject him then to leave immediately.
But I did not do that as I did not want to "hurt his feeling", my god, how dumb was I!!!
No rejection, but I tried to think of another way out.
Then I told him I had to get back to my parents if not they'll get worried, he finally let go. I took a packet of snacks there, it was what I went there for.
... and handed him 20 cents.
That pervert was oh-so-kind-and-reasonable. He gave me the snacks for free!
I took it not thinking more, but then it came to me, as I accepted it, I accepted his "payment".
The payment didn't have to be huge as I was only a child.
Of course, he asked me not to tell my parents, but duh, yeah right.
I told my mum, but my mum asked me to keep quiet, she worried that my dad would do something really nasty to him, she did not want my dad to be arrested.
I also remember being harassed by many perverts when I was in the teacher training college, even by lecturers, but I am no longer so kind like I was little.
Women being harassed or raped before, you don't need sympathy nor empathy from people, you need power for yourself!
Be powerful, fuck those perverted jerks, we are more powerful than they fucking are!
Wednesday, 3 December 2008
Tuesday, 2 December 2008
The Crap Talk
Michael Jackson becomes the spokemodel for Islam, I really wish I could write about how much I am against his religion!!
Freedom of speech, I know, but I risk my future being put into jail, because first, I am from a Muslim country (how unfortunate) and second, I work for the bloody government.
Especially now that they are using ISA to put away a lot of innocent people including bloggers..
That's why I hate being called a Malaysian, I always demand being called a Chinese.
I really wonder why people say it is a peaceful religion, as I see, they burned flags, killed thousands of people, etc etc, that doesn't sound very peaceful-like. They are more extreme than anyone else in the world.
You never see a Buddhist suicide-bomber, nor a Christian, Catholic nor Jewish bomber, that noun is exclusive for Muslim.
... and this crap rule they have, "a wife is a man's possession".
Women are nothing when it comes to this religion, they have no rights for anything.
That is something I am really really against and find it total bullshit!
You see, being a government worker we have to be sent into a lot of camps, national camps where they tried to brainwash people.
That's why I never had fun going camping, I hate them!
I remember when I graduated from my college, my whole class was sent to one, again.
We were warned by a nice lecturer, we MUST support the government and Islam whatever it takes, if not, they will fail us and we have to re-attend, it's bloody pointless, you have to agree at some point.
Whatever, I did not give a damn, I would not say yes to something I am against. If I am not that against it, I can make up some bullshits, no worries.
So I was arranged into this group where our lecturer was a woman, a very open-minded Muslim woman, she's funny though her humour is very Malay-like and no Chinese laughed at her jokes because we couldn't understand, she's also very friendly and she's very smart.
She got a good impression from me, she did not have to try too hard.
I always express my thoughts openly and widely, I could tell from her reaction that she liked me and she would give me good points.
Until she asked two very fucking stupid questions:
1. Would you sign-up for polygamy?
2. Do you think it's reasonable for the government to ask you to change your Chinese name into a Muslim name?
What kinda idiotic questions are those?!
Let me give you a head's up about this polygamy thingy here. Muslim men here are allowed up to four wives. Years ago the government launched some programme for people in Malaysia to produce more people, Islam or not.
The programme is that you MUST produce 7 children with as many wives as you want. The government will give the first wife a house and some allowances every month, as for the other wives, no worries, governments support their life until they die.
Tempting, isn't it?
You can marry up to 72 virgins and no one could say no!
Doesn't matter what your race is, doesn't matter what your skin colour is and doesn't matter what your religion is!
I don't know what will happen if you sign up for it but unable to produce up to that figure, that is not up for me to worry, I will NEVER fucking sign up for it.
First of all, I was mislead into thinking that the governments are forcing the whole Malaysia citizens to sign up for this thingy by a Muslim lady.
She also told me, if the husband said he wanted to marry more women, you have no choice but to say yes!
She's wrong, I do have another choice and that is to bloody castrate him.
I asked her what if she's unhappy about it? She said no choice, she must endure!
Oh my god, this is totally unbelievable! What are the divorce lawyers for in Malaysia?? If you want to marry somebody else, divorce your spouse, simple as that!
The misunderstanding about her first question made me furious, I was burning. What, the governments think all Chinese and Indian people are so low-educated?!
So I expressed my point, if the government was to launch it by force, that would cause a lot of people to leave Malaysia. Besides, I also gave a powerful reason which I cannot remember now, there was no way they could debate me.
But she and several Muslim guys in the group starting to lecture me about my arrogance instead. Duh! What arrogance?! What kinda woman allows penis-sharing in her marriage?!
Unholy aside, that is totally unhygienic, you know how many germs are there on our sex organ?!
Then the Muslim lady who misled me secretly asked me not to talk more as they were on fire blasting at me. She claimed, all men in this world want to have more women and this is an Islam rule, I am powerless to fight it.
I totally disagree, I really don't think all men in this world are that cheap!
You see, men who want more women think other men are cheap like them, but truth is, there are men who are happy being faithful.
At last, I told them I respect their point but I hold on to mine, I despise those who changed their opinion after being blasted, I don't want to look down on myself.
I thought somebody as open-minded as my lecturer would agree on my point, apparently, she is one of those who doesn't mind sharing her husband's penis.
How pathetic, why are all the Muslim women asked to accept polygamy?!
I am very bloody grateful I was not born in a Muslim family.
Then there is this unreasonable name-changing thingy.
As everyone in Indonesia has to have a Muslim name including all Chinese people, we were asked if it would be wise and reasonable for the Malaysian people to do the same.
Again, these people have no brain, why would it be wise? Why would we allow someone to invade and change our culture?!
How would they bloody like it if we ask they change their name to a Chinese one?!
I am a bloody Chinese, I am not Muslim, why would I bloody want to change my name to something like.. "Nur Muslimah al-Khatijah binti Mustafa Ahmad"!!
I don't usually call people "idiots" but I couldn't find a better word.
This time, I was more careful, I could not bear another mistake or she would fucking fail me for sure.
She asked everyone in the group, yes or no; the thoughts of yes or no were running through my mind.
Until I saw her asking my close friend, Sheng.
Sheng was my classmate who's extremely smart with a strong-mind. He had my respect until he said "yes" to her.
I know him very well, there is NO FUCKING way he would agree to it, he would be against this thing more than me, but he said yes anyway.
What a hypocrite, he would fit well in Malaysia.
Then it was my turn, I decided to say no, the lecturer was surprised, she really thought I would say yes in order to pass.
I also provided two very strong reasons not to, this time, she was speechless.
Of course, you could never debate me when it comes to many things, especially somebody who is blinded by her own religion.
Islam, a religion I could totally never understand and would never join in my life!
Freedom of speech, I know, but I risk my future being put into jail, because first, I am from a Muslim country (how unfortunate) and second, I work for the bloody government.
Especially now that they are using ISA to put away a lot of innocent people including bloggers..
That's why I hate being called a Malaysian, I always demand being called a Chinese.
I really wonder why people say it is a peaceful religion, as I see, they burned flags, killed thousands of people, etc etc, that doesn't sound very peaceful-like. They are more extreme than anyone else in the world.
You never see a Buddhist suicide-bomber, nor a Christian, Catholic nor Jewish bomber, that noun is exclusive for Muslim.
... and this crap rule they have, "a wife is a man's possession".
Women are nothing when it comes to this religion, they have no rights for anything.
That is something I am really really against and find it total bullshit!
You see, being a government worker we have to be sent into a lot of camps, national camps where they tried to brainwash people.
That's why I never had fun going camping, I hate them!
I remember when I graduated from my college, my whole class was sent to one, again.
We were warned by a nice lecturer, we MUST support the government and Islam whatever it takes, if not, they will fail us and we have to re-attend, it's bloody pointless, you have to agree at some point.
Whatever, I did not give a damn, I would not say yes to something I am against. If I am not that against it, I can make up some bullshits, no worries.
So I was arranged into this group where our lecturer was a woman, a very open-minded Muslim woman, she's funny though her humour is very Malay-like and no Chinese laughed at her jokes because we couldn't understand, she's also very friendly and she's very smart.
She got a good impression from me, she did not have to try too hard.
I always express my thoughts openly and widely, I could tell from her reaction that she liked me and she would give me good points.
Until she asked two very fucking stupid questions:
1. Would you sign-up for polygamy?
2. Do you think it's reasonable for the government to ask you to change your Chinese name into a Muslim name?
What kinda idiotic questions are those?!
Let me give you a head's up about this polygamy thingy here. Muslim men here are allowed up to four wives. Years ago the government launched some programme for people in Malaysia to produce more people, Islam or not.
The programme is that you MUST produce 7 children with as many wives as you want. The government will give the first wife a house and some allowances every month, as for the other wives, no worries, governments support their life until they die.
Tempting, isn't it?
You can marry up to 72 virgins and no one could say no!
Doesn't matter what your race is, doesn't matter what your skin colour is and doesn't matter what your religion is!
I don't know what will happen if you sign up for it but unable to produce up to that figure, that is not up for me to worry, I will NEVER fucking sign up for it.
First of all, I was mislead into thinking that the governments are forcing the whole Malaysia citizens to sign up for this thingy by a Muslim lady.
She also told me, if the husband said he wanted to marry more women, you have no choice but to say yes!
She's wrong, I do have another choice and that is to bloody castrate him.
I asked her what if she's unhappy about it? She said no choice, she must endure!
Oh my god, this is totally unbelievable! What are the divorce lawyers for in Malaysia?? If you want to marry somebody else, divorce your spouse, simple as that!
The misunderstanding about her first question made me furious, I was burning. What, the governments think all Chinese and Indian people are so low-educated?!
So I expressed my point, if the government was to launch it by force, that would cause a lot of people to leave Malaysia. Besides, I also gave a powerful reason which I cannot remember now, there was no way they could debate me.
But she and several Muslim guys in the group starting to lecture me about my arrogance instead. Duh! What arrogance?! What kinda woman allows penis-sharing in her marriage?!
Unholy aside, that is totally unhygienic, you know how many germs are there on our sex organ?!
Then the Muslim lady who misled me secretly asked me not to talk more as they were on fire blasting at me. She claimed, all men in this world want to have more women and this is an Islam rule, I am powerless to fight it.
I totally disagree, I really don't think all men in this world are that cheap!
You see, men who want more women think other men are cheap like them, but truth is, there are men who are happy being faithful.
At last, I told them I respect their point but I hold on to mine, I despise those who changed their opinion after being blasted, I don't want to look down on myself.
I thought somebody as open-minded as my lecturer would agree on my point, apparently, she is one of those who doesn't mind sharing her husband's penis.
How pathetic, why are all the Muslim women asked to accept polygamy?!
I am very bloody grateful I was not born in a Muslim family.
Then there is this unreasonable name-changing thingy.
As everyone in Indonesia has to have a Muslim name including all Chinese people, we were asked if it would be wise and reasonable for the Malaysian people to do the same.
Again, these people have no brain, why would it be wise? Why would we allow someone to invade and change our culture?!
How would they bloody like it if we ask they change their name to a Chinese one?!
I am a bloody Chinese, I am not Muslim, why would I bloody want to change my name to something like.. "Nur Muslimah al-Khatijah binti Mustafa Ahmad"!!
I don't usually call people "idiots" but I couldn't find a better word.
This time, I was more careful, I could not bear another mistake or she would fucking fail me for sure.
She asked everyone in the group, yes or no; the thoughts of yes or no were running through my mind.
Until I saw her asking my close friend, Sheng.
Sheng was my classmate who's extremely smart with a strong-mind. He had my respect until he said "yes" to her.
I know him very well, there is NO FUCKING way he would agree to it, he would be against this thing more than me, but he said yes anyway.
What a hypocrite, he would fit well in Malaysia.
Then it was my turn, I decided to say no, the lecturer was surprised, she really thought I would say yes in order to pass.
I also provided two very strong reasons not to, this time, she was speechless.
Of course, you could never debate me when it comes to many things, especially somebody who is blinded by her own religion.
Islam, a religion I could totally never understand and would never join in my life!
Monday, 1 December 2008
The Rubbers in Beautiful and Colourful Boxes
Most men I know don't like using condoms.
People, I said "I know", not "I had physical contact with".
That is so bloody selfish and pathetic. If someone who wants to have sex with you refused to put on a condom, he is hopelessly selfish and you should just dump him.
Days ago when I was on my quest to a sex shop in Singapore, I saw lots of girls laughing and giggling choosing among some condoms.
Like teenagers, duh. Time to grow up, girls, you only buy condoms on your own or with a guy, not with your girlfriends!!!
... and you don't "giggle" when you buy condoms, like you don't "giggle" when you have sex!
They were choosing among the kinky condoms, you know, the kind that doesn't protect you from pregnancies or STDs at all, but merely for fun and the kinkiness.
... and they pain the CRAP out of you!
I was very tempted to walk towards them and tell them don't ruin their sexual experience with that kinda condoms, but nah, they have a lot to learn.
When I was shopping with my sister, Judy just now, we passed by the condom section in a drug store.
One of the 12-condom boxes actually comes with a free gift, I was very curious therefore I reached for the box for a closer look...
It comes with a free keychain, alright, I thought it comes with something more interesting, but nevermind, I would never buy a box of 12 condoms in front of my family.
I am very shy, remember?
My sister asked me then, what was I holding in my hand, I said, "condoms, duh!"
I asked her if she's never seen a condom before in her life, she told me, yes, her teacher once bought one to show them.
My god, teachers these days are incredibly dedicated, I would never spend my money to buy a condom to show my children!
My teacher never showed us what a condom is like anyway, I bought a box of 3 condoms when I was 14 to have a proper look.
3 condoms, one for checking, one as the birthday present for my best friend Arwen, the other one I just don't remember, but for sure, I DID NOT use it!
That box was incredibly cheap, RM2, it's a Durex.
Durex, the best, remember?
Now I doubt it if people would risk their future buying cheap condoms. So maybe, Durex specially produced that kinda cheap ones for "life explorers" like me.
Yup, Arwen was a decent girl, in fact, she still is. She was blushing like crazy when she received that condom and she tried to throw it away.
We were way naughtier, we rescued the condom by grabbing it and ran to the toilet. Then we filled it with water and poked a hole on it.
We poked only one hole at that one spot which I am sure you will be able to guess where. It looked just like a man shooting out his load.
Yup, our curiousity were completely satisfied, time to go back to the classroom, as for the condom, time to go back to where it belonged: the dustbin.
It would be bloody funny if the teachers found the condom in the bin, that would freak the crap out of them.
Oh, I never mentioned, I was in a Malay school, the alternate name for Malay school is "Muslim school", almost all the teachers there are Muslim.
Muslims, you know how they feel about sex!
Thanks to Durex, my curiousity towards condoms came to an end.
Until I was 19, I bought 2 boxes of condoms.
I still remember, the bloody Muslim cashier lady in the drug store actually lectured me for buying condoms! She said, "hey, you are only a student and you buy condoms?!"
I dressed up casually that time, with my glasses, I looked fairly innocent. I was quite unhappy, it's not my problem about her conservative mind. So I laughed out sarcastically, "Me? A student??"
She was embarrassed then she quickly scanned the items and wrapped it up for me.
Unprofessional, but I think it's good. It is not encouraged for youngsters here to have sex plus I am very against premature sex.
After that, I paid more attentions to condoms. I could never believe there are so many varieties to choose from, those boxes brighten up your minds!
There are ribbed, raised dots, ribbed and raised dots, tingle, etc etc, even pleasure enhancing lubes for you to choose from!
I never knew any women who don't like using condoms except Stella, Stella told me condoms take away most of the pleasure.
... and she only uses "ultra thin", she pointed it at me as the drug store was doing some promotion for that condom.
I checked, the diameter for that kinda ultra thin condoms is like.. 48mm, that's like.. so-bloody-tight-no-blood-circulation-you-feel-like-that-part-of-your-body-is-dying size.
In case you are wondering, there is no size range for the condoms here. Unlike the west, they sell condoms from size medium to size unknown, no surprise, who would buy a small sized condom?
Condoms here are with a usual size of 52mm(or 52.5mm, but not a lot). If you are like.. gigantic, you will have to go for the 56mm's, Durex: Comfort.
That's the largest you could find here in Asia. If you are against Durex, sorry, you're on your own.
If you don't know how to use a condom you can always log on to the official site of the Durex world, they have an online free tutorial.
I really like to study and read about condoms when I am in a drug store, though sometimes some uncles give me some strange look thinking that I am the new crowned slut in Asia and I fuck men like crazy.
That is so not true, I am the intellectual type, I study and read.
Use a condom, though that's not very environmental-friendly, but don't we just love condoms sometimes?
People, I said "I know", not "I had physical contact with".
That is so bloody selfish and pathetic. If someone who wants to have sex with you refused to put on a condom, he is hopelessly selfish and you should just dump him.
Days ago when I was on my quest to a sex shop in Singapore, I saw lots of girls laughing and giggling choosing among some condoms.
Like teenagers, duh. Time to grow up, girls, you only buy condoms on your own or with a guy, not with your girlfriends!!!
... and you don't "giggle" when you buy condoms, like you don't "giggle" when you have sex!
They were choosing among the kinky condoms, you know, the kind that doesn't protect you from pregnancies or STDs at all, but merely for fun and the kinkiness.
... and they pain the CRAP out of you!
I was very tempted to walk towards them and tell them don't ruin their sexual experience with that kinda condoms, but nah, they have a lot to learn.
When I was shopping with my sister, Judy just now, we passed by the condom section in a drug store.
One of the 12-condom boxes actually comes with a free gift, I was very curious therefore I reached for the box for a closer look...
It comes with a free keychain, alright, I thought it comes with something more interesting, but nevermind, I would never buy a box of 12 condoms in front of my family.
I am very shy, remember?
My sister asked me then, what was I holding in my hand, I said, "condoms, duh!"
I asked her if she's never seen a condom before in her life, she told me, yes, her teacher once bought one to show them.
My god, teachers these days are incredibly dedicated, I would never spend my money to buy a condom to show my children!
My teacher never showed us what a condom is like anyway, I bought a box of 3 condoms when I was 14 to have a proper look.
3 condoms, one for checking, one as the birthday present for my best friend Arwen, the other one I just don't remember, but for sure, I DID NOT use it!
That box was incredibly cheap, RM2, it's a Durex.
Durex, the best, remember?
Now I doubt it if people would risk their future buying cheap condoms. So maybe, Durex specially produced that kinda cheap ones for "life explorers" like me.
Yup, Arwen was a decent girl, in fact, she still is. She was blushing like crazy when she received that condom and she tried to throw it away.
We were way naughtier, we rescued the condom by grabbing it and ran to the toilet. Then we filled it with water and poked a hole on it.
We poked only one hole at that one spot which I am sure you will be able to guess where. It looked just like a man shooting out his load.
Yup, our curiousity were completely satisfied, time to go back to the classroom, as for the condom, time to go back to where it belonged: the dustbin.
It would be bloody funny if the teachers found the condom in the bin, that would freak the crap out of them.
Oh, I never mentioned, I was in a Malay school, the alternate name for Malay school is "Muslim school", almost all the teachers there are Muslim.
Muslims, you know how they feel about sex!
Thanks to Durex, my curiousity towards condoms came to an end.
Until I was 19, I bought 2 boxes of condoms.
I still remember, the bloody Muslim cashier lady in the drug store actually lectured me for buying condoms! She said, "hey, you are only a student and you buy condoms?!"
I dressed up casually that time, with my glasses, I looked fairly innocent. I was quite unhappy, it's not my problem about her conservative mind. So I laughed out sarcastically, "Me? A student??"
She was embarrassed then she quickly scanned the items and wrapped it up for me.
Unprofessional, but I think it's good. It is not encouraged for youngsters here to have sex plus I am very against premature sex.
After that, I paid more attentions to condoms. I could never believe there are so many varieties to choose from, those boxes brighten up your minds!
There are ribbed, raised dots, ribbed and raised dots, tingle, etc etc, even pleasure enhancing lubes for you to choose from!
I never knew any women who don't like using condoms except Stella, Stella told me condoms take away most of the pleasure.
... and she only uses "ultra thin", she pointed it at me as the drug store was doing some promotion for that condom.
I checked, the diameter for that kinda ultra thin condoms is like.. 48mm, that's like.. so-bloody-tight-no-blood-circulation-you-feel-like-that-part-of-your-body-is-dying size.
In case you are wondering, there is no size range for the condoms here. Unlike the west, they sell condoms from size medium to size unknown, no surprise, who would buy a small sized condom?
Condoms here are with a usual size of 52mm(or 52.5mm, but not a lot). If you are like.. gigantic, you will have to go for the 56mm's, Durex: Comfort.
That's the largest you could find here in Asia. If you are against Durex, sorry, you're on your own.
If you don't know how to use a condom you can always log on to the official site of the Durex world, they have an online free tutorial.
I really like to study and read about condoms when I am in a drug store, though sometimes some uncles give me some strange look thinking that I am the new crowned slut in Asia and I fuck men like crazy.
That is so not true, I am the intellectual type, I study and read.
Use a condom, though that's not very environmental-friendly, but don't we just love condoms sometimes?
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